Excerpt from the book Love Magic by Susan Barnes
ByWhen you love someone, you love them, love is as real as it feels in the moment and it doesn’t go away, it simply changes form.
If you loved someone you will always have a love for them, you may not be involved with them on a romantic level anymore but you will always love them, If not then, it was never love in the first place. It was ego fixated on an agenda.
Because you are human, your thoughts, feelings and emotions flow and shift like the wind. Your feelings only matter to you, it’s the way you treat the people who love you that truly matters.
When you can see the perfection in all living beings you come into contact with, you will set into motion your freedom from enslavement to ego.
When you see perfection in yourself you become even freer, and the freer you become the more honest you live your life.
Some Easy Way to be Free:
1. Stop negative thoughts and words about yourself and others…now.
2. Stop blaming others for your critical nature. Even if you were raised by critical parents, this is no excuse to become critical. Blame shifting is simply addiction to the story you hang onto to stay stuck.
3. See everyone as perfect. When you see a flaw say to yourself, “Oh, isn’t that cute the way they…” And then focus on what you like about them.
4. When you think a critical thought of yourself, stop it in its tracks; remember criticism is like a slow acting poison.
5. See perfection in yourself, when you see yourself as a part of God you will behave as God and there is no criticism on the higher planes of existence. In order to evolve, you must stop finding fault with others and with yourself. Love you and others will too.
6. When you quiet the critic within, learn to see perfection in everyone and love, then you will start to see the truth. When you see the truth, you live in love. A space where there are no deceptions is a God space, when you no longer deceive, you will no longer be deceived. You can start being honest right now in this moment, even if you haven’t been up to now. When you do, you will evolve at rapid fire pace. To be evolved, we must get past the human sense of truth and enter the divine truth.
7. Give up the addiction to criticism.
8. Give up the addiction to gossip. Gossip ultimately hurts the one doing the gossiping and affects the person who listens to it.
9.To be wounded by another’s criticism is to be rooted in a victim mentality. Let the harsh words flow off you like water and bless the criticizer.
10. Open your heart and love through the hurt, the criticism and the victimization. Cover everyone with love including yourself.
by Susan Barnes
Love Magic available on http://www.amazon.com
