A Smile Is All You Need
By Susan Barnes

There are seven ways to attract love and stay within your budget.
And they are easy to do!

1. Smile! A smile disarms others and creates immediate rapport. Even if you aren’t feeling it on a particular day, do it anyway. If you aren’t happy, pretend to be! You’ll actually begin to feel happier when you smile. The added benefit is, it costs nothing and the sexiest thing to a man is a happy woman. Both women and men like people they feel they can make happy, if you have a warm smile on your face you’ll move mountains without the bill.

2. Stop all Unlovable Behaviors: No one like a crude woman or man. Leave the gutter talk in the gutter, and curb those unhealthy instincts like smoking and drinking. They’ll just leave you in a low vibratory state. When your energy is low, you’ll attract others with low energy. Who needs that? With a drink costing $7 to $8 or more in a bar you can soon go into debt with nothing to show for it except embarrassment and an expensive hangover. Think of what you can do with the money you’ll save if you stop buying alcohol and cigarettes? You can open up a savings account with all that extra cash! With more money in the bank from saving you’ll feel better about yourself and when you feel better about yourself you attract all kinds of great people!

3. No Whining! No matter what happens, your ex left you for the masseuse, you’re in a divorce battle of the century, you got laid off from work, no matter what, do not whine about it! I know it’s hard but keep the negative comments to yourself. If you need to complain, buy a notebook and write down your gripes instead of talking about them to others. When you go back and look at all the stuff you wrote down chances are you’ll be shocked at how low you could go. Pull yourself up and remember, we’re all in this together. When you look on the bright side, things will perk up and you will attract a perky mate. Nobody wants to be around a Debbie or a Don Downer.

4. Choose to be with Lovable People: Being around negative people can drag anyone down. Find new people, join a club, go to the local chamber of commerce to find clubs and dive in! Your goal is to meet at least 5 new people a week. And find happy people the ones who are laughing, smiling and having a good time in spite of the economic conditions. If you have friends who bitch and moan all the time, distance yourself from them now. Go bowling, go to a table tennis club, do anything to make new positive friends.

5. Trust in Love: Nobody can resist the power of love. Love costs nothing yet gives everything. If you believe in an expensive deep love, you become a magnet for just that. If you haven’t gotten faith in love it won’t have faith in you. I spoke to a woman who told me she had a “love/hate” relationship with love. Of course she wasn’t in a relationship, she said she wanted one but her actions said otherwise. And she complained constantly while speaking bitterly about men. There is no way this woman can attract a loving committed relationship until she begins to trust in love. We’ve all been hurt, all of us, nobody is immune to the pain of a break up. The key is to realize that if you had love once, you will again, and the next time it will be even better. Because we learn from our mistakes, in order to grow we have to make errors. That’s the beauty of being alive, embrace your mistakes, learn from them and let trust fill your wounds. Focus on loving others in your life and loving you, when you do that, love can’t resist you!

Copyright @ 2010 by Susan Barnes. All rights Reserved.

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Susan Barnes is a success coach, author of 8 books, and an international speaker about success and charisma. Susan has appeared on numerous radio and tv shows including, The Rachael Ray show. Susan has been featured on Playboy Sirius radio as a guest relationship advice expert. She can be personally reached via her website – Contact Susan.

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Come out and meet Susan Barnes, Author where she will be appearing for a Book Signing at the Tulsa Literati Indie Book Fair, which will take place at the McBirney Mansion in Tulsa, OK this weekend!

Date: Saturday, November 14, 2009
Time: 11:00am – 5:00pm
Location: McBirney Mansion
Street: 1414 S. Galveston Street
City/Town/State: Tulsa, OK

Susan will be appearing with Shirley Hall, acclaimed poet and author of LISTEN.
Please visit Shirley’s site at http://www.shirleyhallpoet.net

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Susan is a feature writer on Planet Starz monthly ezine “Mystic Living Today“.

Read her latest article “How to have Outrageous Confidence”” by Susan Barnes.

In this article, Susan provides advice to gain confidence in yourself and live a happy life.

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Susan Barnes is a published Author of eight books, including “Love Magic”, “Write to Ignite”, and the Kelly Karate series. Additional books soon to be released by Susan include Medicine Maker, The Land Run Ghost and Attracting Love.
Official Website for Susan Barnes, Author: www.susanabarnesauthor.com
Official Facebook Fan Page for Susan Barnes: www.facebook.com/susanbarnesauthor
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Meet Susan Barnes & Get Your Books Signed! Susan Barnes, Author of 8 books has appeared on numerous TV and radio shows nationwide including the Rachael Ray television show and Playboy radio. She will be at the Tulsa State Fair (2009) for two sets of book signing appearances taking place at Tulsa Expo Square in Tulsa, OK.  The first appearance will take place Oct 1st – 6th and the second appearance will take place Oct 10th & 11th, 2009.  She will be appearing each day from 11AM – 4PM
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When you love someone, you love them, love is as real as it feels in the moment and it doesn’t go away, it simply changes form.
If you loved someone you will always have a love for them, you may not be involved with them on a romantic level anymore but you will always love them, If not then, it was never love in the first place. It was ego fixated on an agenda.

Because you are human, your thoughts, feelings and emotions flow and shift like the wind. Your feelings only matter to you, it’s the way you treat the people who love you that truly matters.

When you can see the perfection in all living beings you come into contact with, you will set into motion your freedom from enslavement to ego.

When you see perfection in yourself you become even freer, and the freer you become the more honest you live your life.

Some Easy Way to be Free:

1. Stop negative thoughts and words about yourself and others…now.
2. Stop blaming others for your critical nature. Even if you were raised by critical parents, this is no excuse to become critical. Blame shifting is simply addiction to the story you hang onto to stay stuck.
3. See everyone as perfect. When you see a flaw say to yourself, “Oh, isn’t that cute the way they…” And then focus on what you like about them.
4. When you think a critical thought of yourself, stop it in its tracks; remember criticism is like a slow acting poison.
5. See perfection in yourself, when you see yourself as a part of God you will behave as God and there is no criticism on the higher planes of existence. In order to evolve, you must stop finding fault with others and with yourself. Love you and others will too.
6. When you quiet the critic within, learn to see perfection in everyone and love, then you will start to see the truth. When you see the truth, you live in love. A space where there are no deceptions is a God space, when you no longer deceive, you will no longer be deceived. You can start being honest right now in this moment, even if you haven’t been up to now. When you do, you will evolve at rapid fire pace. To be evolved, we must get past the human sense of truth and enter the divine truth.
7. Give up the addiction to criticism.
8. Give up the addiction to gossip. Gossip ultimately hurts the one doing the gossiping and affects the person who listens to it.
9.To be wounded by another’s criticism is to be rooted in a victim mentality. Let the harsh words flow off you like water and bless the criticizer.
10. Open your heart and love through the hurt, the criticism and the victimization. Cover everyone with love including yourself.

by Susan Barnes

Love Magic available on http://www.amazon.com

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